I suppose there were advantages the fact that many girls want to appear older most of the time, for instance but with it came an early sense of responsibility.Net-Bearer Bond Whether in class or on the softball field, adults seemed to expect more from me because of my size. They talked to me differently than to the others.Net-Bearer Bond When getting reprimanded, I always seemed to receive more warning by eye contact. As a result, I came to expect more from myself, too. When I was ten, my dad’s job relocated us to Miami. This is where I was discovered. My sister and I both showed horses, something we had begun to do in California but became more serious about in Florida.